Who can attend these event?
The Charleston Queer Prom is open to everyone under the rainbow including straight allies! However:
Youth Queer Prom is open to ONLY middle and high school student as well as homeschooled students. Registration is required to attend this event. For the saftety of some of the youth attending this event, parents and/or legal guardians are not allowed to enter the prom space.
Adult Queer Prom is open to folks 18 years old or older. Attendess for this event must also have a vaild ticket for entry and a vaild ID or document to show proof of age. No expectations.
WHY QUEER YOUTH PROM?
Many schools expect students to adhere to cis-heteronomative standards of dress and expression at prom. We know that some LGBTQI+ and gender expansive youth don’t fit these molds when it comes to self expression. Additionally, many students are bullied in school and have to be home-schooled, so they miss their prom, or maybe their prom experience through their school is not so LGBT-affirming. At the Charleston Queer Prom, you are welcomed to dance the night away and bring whomever you want (as long as they’re under 18 and in middle or highschool) and wear whatever you want! This is your night to enjoy prom to the fullest! The only requirement is to have fun!
I identify as a guy, do I have to wear a tux?
NOPE! This is your night! You can wear whatever you want! If you want to come in cosplay, jeans & T-shirt, or in a costume that is on theme, that is fine too!
I’m not out to my grown ups yet, is it safe to come?
YES! When you arrive at the venue, there will be NO signage or anything Queer/Rainbows/Pride around. Windows are covered so no one can look in. Also, there is usually an adult outside if you need us to talk to your grown ups! Some folx even come to prom in jeans and t-shirts and change into their prom outfit and change back out at the end of the night! If you have any questions, please feel free to reach out!
I am shy and get social anxiety, is this event right for me?
YES! We offer a space space for EVERYONE! At the Youth Queer Prom, we will have a section where you can enjoy prom night at a quiet and relaxing way. Our staff and voultneers are also trained to deal with any anxiety situations that might come up.
Can my mom or dad come to Queer Youth Prom?
Sorry, no moms or dads allowed. This event is for middle and highschool youth. All adults allowed in this event have been trained to work with youth and have passed a background check. If your parents have any questions, feel free to reach out to us or speak to one of our staff members at the check in table. We will also have onsite security.
I have a special diet, will there be vegan or gluten free food at prom?
YES! We will offer something for everyone to enjoy.
I don’t want my picture taken. Will there be any photographers I need to worry about?
There will be photographers taking photos of this magical event, HOWEVER if you wish to not have your photo taken, you will be given a special item to let our staff and photographer know that you do not consent to have your photo taken.
What are my transportation/parking options for getting to and from the event?
Parking is limited. We highly recommend ride sharing or carpooling. We Are Family will not be providing transportation to these events.
Are there volunteer opportunities for these events?
Yes! Anyone who is volunteering at Queer Youth Prom MUST complete a background check AND attending one Queer Prom training. This year's Queer Youth Prom Volunteer training will be on Apirl 20th and 28th at 5:30pm. For addiontal questions about volunteering, please email Gabby at volunteercoordinator@waf.org
I’m a shy person. Will there be an ice breaker to make friends?
While we don’t want to ruin any surprises, at both Youth and Adult prom there will be different activity stations throughout the events that are designed for you to experience queer prom to the fullest!
This is my child’s first Queer Youth Prom, how can I know this event is safe?
The safety and well-being of all of our attendees is one of our main priorities. While we can not post all measures we take to make this event possible due to security reasons, rest assured your child is safe attending this event. When you are dropping off your child, our staff will be at the door answering any questions you might have. For any additional questions you may have prior to this event, please contact Jonatan, the event coordinator for this event at contact at (843) 637-9379 or email jonatanr@waf.org
If my child is attending Queer Youth Prom, can I stay as a parent and watch them?
This event is designed to let youth be themselves in a safe environment, therefore parents are NOT allowed inside the prom venue. You may stay near the venue or hangout at one of the nearby restaurants. However, we do invite you to attend our Queer Adult Prom in June (no kids allow at that event!)!
For media inquiries about this event, please contact Jonatan, the event coordinator for this event at contact at (843) 637-9379 or email jonatanr@waf.org
How much are tickets to Queer Prom?
Thanks to our fabulous sponsors, Queer Youth Prom is FREE, but you need to register to attend! However, Queer Adult Prom is a ticketed event where you must purchase a ticket to attend.
Is this event able people friendly?
At We Are friendly, we try to make our events as inclusive as possible. If you need any assistance or accommodations, please email info@waf.org.
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