Gender-Affirming Gear

We are proud to offer some gender-affirming products to transgender and gender non-conforming youth at no cost thanks to the generosity of our partners and community members!

Products We Currently offer

Gender-Affirming Gear Application

Frequently Asked Questions

Gender-Affirming Gear Care and Tips

Application and Information about the Trans Love Fund

 

SPECIAL Thanks to our PARTNERS gc2b, ftm essentials, TransTape, and Unclockable for making this program possible

 

If you would like to become a partner or would like to donate your gently used products, please email us!


 

Products we currently offer

 
 
Chest BindersChest binding is a way for many trans and gender non conforming folxs to curb dysphoria, and is a fairly common step in transitioning. “Binding” refers to flattening breast tissue to create a male-appearing chest using a variety of materials and methods.

Chest Binders

Chest binding is a way for many trans and gender non conforming folxs to curb dysphoria, and is a fairly common step in transitioning. “Binding” refers to flattening breast tissue to create a male-appearing chest using a variety of materials and methods.

TransTape

TransTape is an alternative to using a compression binder that does not use compression; instead, a body-safe cloth tape is used to pull the chest underneath the armpits and stick them there against the skin.

PackersA packer is a realistic or semi-realistic looking penis made out of material like silicone (or even just a rolled up sock). It should be soft enough to sit comfortably against the body. Packing is about the shape it creates, or about feeling comfortable and confident, or just because you want to.

Packers

A packer is a realistic or semi-realistic looking penis made out of material like silicone (or even just a rolled up sock). It should be soft enough to sit comfortably against the body. Packing is about the shape it creates, or about feeling comfortable and confident, or just because you want to.

Tuck Kits by Unclockable

Tucking is a technique whereby an individual hides the crotch bulge of the penis and testicles so that they are not conspicuous through clothing.

Bra Buds by Unclockable

Bra Buds are silicone bra inserts specifically designed for Trans Women. They provide a natural-looking feminine silhouette while offering comfort and confidence. These inserts measure 5.1 inches. Hypoallergenic, latex-free, and non-irritating.


Gender-Affirming Gear Application

1/11/24 UPDATE: Due to an increase of request for gender-affirming items and other factors, we are currently pausing shipping gender affirming items to people at this time. You can still receive gender affirming items at no cost at our store, Closet Case Thrift Store, during out hours of operation. Simply let a staff member know you need one when you arrive. We apologize any inconvenience this may cause, but hope to reopen shipping items out this Summer 2024.

Gender affirming products are available for youth and young adults (24 or under) who live in the state of South Carolina at no cost thanks to our generous partners!

If you are not from South Carolina, you may still apply however priority is given to youth in southern states.

If you are requesting a gender affirming item, please fill this form out and we will get back to you as soon as the product is available for you!

If you have any questions, please email us or give us a call!

UPDATE: Due to supply issues,  we are currently pausing shipping gender affirming items to people at this time. You can still receive gender affirming items at no cost at our store, Closet Case Thrift Store, during our hours of operation. We apologize any inconvenience this may cause and hope to reopen this program in the near future.


 

Frequently Asked Questions

Quick Answers to common questions about our gender-affirming program

Do you offer discreet Shipping?

All orders are shipped via USPS. The shipping will read “WAF, Thrift". Whenever you filled out the application, we ask that you need to include the name you go by at the location we will be sending this to you. Once the item ships to you, you will get an email with the tracking number. We do not accept request for packages to be delivered in certain areas or hidden. Please coordinate with your local post office or arrange a packing intercept with USPS.

Thank you for this! How can I thank y’all?

Send us a DM on social media! We share your feedback with our funders and partners to show them the impact they make on this program! (When we share your messages, we will black out your name and image for your Safety and privacy).

Not sure about my sizing, can I guess?

NO! We highly recommend NOT guessing on your sizes because we will send you the item you requested based on the measurements you provide. If you are not sure of your sizes, ask a friend to measure you or visit us in store and we will be happy to measure you!

Can I get 2 chest binders?

No. You may only get ONE of each Gender affirming item per quarter if the item you are requesting is available. For example, you may get ONE chest binder and ONE Packer per quarter, just remember to apply for each item!

How long until I get my order?

Gender Affirming items are highly requested and we are a small staff at We Are Family, therefore it may take us a while to reach out to you about your request. Once you apply for an item, you are in our queue and we will reach out to you via email once we have an item for you!

Is chest binding safe?

Yes! Throughout history, Chest Binding has been a thing! From wearing Corsets to Japanese kimonos. If you do get a chest binder from us, we will send you information on how to take care of your new chest binder!

How difficult is it to get a Chest binder on or off?

If you get the right size chest binder (if you provided the right measurements) it should come off like a regular shirt!

The item I got does not fit me! What do I do?

Don’t panic! Give us a call at (843)637-9379 or email us at closetcasethrift@waf.org and we will try to send you a new item!

I have a gender-affirming item I would like to donation, can I do that?

YES! This program is ran by donations from community members and your partners. You may drop off your donation at Closet Case Thrift Store or mail you item to us.


Didn’t see your question above? No worries! Ask us using the form below!

 

Gender-Affirming Gear Care and Tips

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When you receive the item you requested, you will be given additional information about the product from the manufacturer if available

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